#hook up culture

[clowncloud]

anti hook up culture

[vixxenlove98]

I love women too much to not tell them the truth. Stop rewarding horrible men with sex. Stop engaging in hook up culture. Money is nice but stop letting men get away with atrocities because they are rich.

These men do not care about you. Love yourself first then focus on love. I beg of you.

[vampiremiffy]

its so fucking weird how upset people get when women (and men to but i dont talk about men's issues, so that's it) decide to be celibate??

especially because most of them are doing it because their hook ups (men, because ive seen it mostly with straight women) don't care about them and they're only being a booty call/sneaky link and its making it worst for their mental health

and its surprisingly women judging them for "judging HU culture" "being a prude" or saying "i could never" jesus Christ dude, people are really addicted to sex out here

[the-most-humble-blog]

Can I Get Cancelled Because You Didn’t Get Off?

🚨 Welcome to The Age of Professional Annihilation

In today’s world, you don’t need to actually do anything wrong to be cancelled. Your biggest crime? Breathing while male and fucking someone who later decided they regret it.

So let’s get real about how easy it is to get cancelled for someone else’s fragile ego, self-inflicted delusions, or an orgasm that never happened.

Step 1: The Flimsy Road to Cancellation

Not all cancellations are made equal, but here are some of the most absurd, yet completely irrefutable ways a man can have his entire existence obliterated:

💔 You Raw Dogged Her, Then Handed Her Uber Money – She was fine with it until she remembered she had standards two weeks later. Now you’re a soulless, misogynistic villain because she didn’t get breakfast in bed and a heartfelt "good morning" text.

🎭 You Slept with Her, She Didn’t Get the Promotion, Role, or Career Opportunity She Hoped For – Congratulations! Your dick has now been reclassified as a contract she didn’t read carefully enough. And now? You “pressured” her into it.

🕵️ She Was Embarrassed Someone Found Out & Needed an Excuse – What’s the best way to not look like an attention-starved opportunist? Call it "non-consensual." Now it’s a feminist victory.

😡 She’s Pissed That All Men Want Is Sex – Turns out, you just wanted to fuck instead of writing poetry about the universe inside her eyes. Misogyny confirmed. Time for her to go nuclear and start the mass un-aliving of your career.

🚨 A Friend Told Her She Should Feel Violated – SHE wasn’t uncomfortable, but her best friend with a minor in feminist theory convinced her that she should be. Your sex life has now been posthumously reclassified as predatory.

Step 2: Assess Your Cancellation Risk Level

Are you breathing? Do you have a penis? Then you’re already fucked. But let’s be specific:Risk LevelWhat You Did WrongLow RiskYou’re a virgin. No one cares.Moderate RiskYou had consensual sex, but the orgasm disparity was too great.High RiskYou didn’t pretend to love her after.Immediate CancellationYou exist, and someone needs a cause today.

Step 3: Preemptive Damage Control

If you think you might be on the chopping block, here’s what you should do immediately:

✅ Only sleep with notarized consent forms. (Bonus points if it’s live-streamed.) ✅ Never leave an unsatisfied woman alive. Ghosting isn’t safe anymore. ✅ Stay celibate, join a monastery, let the species die out. ✅ If she says “I’m fine” in a weird tone, IMMEDIATELY FLEE THE COUNTRY. ✅ Save money for a defamation lawsuit. You’re gonna need it.

Step 4: How To Fight Back When The Cancellation Hits

Let’s say you’re already the main character of a Twitter mob’s wet dream. Here’s your damage control strategy:

💀 Own It. – Be unbothered, double down. Nothing infuriates these people more than a man who refuses to grovel.

📢 Sue for Defamation. – Women are getting sued left and right for false accusations. Time to let the courts do the canceling.

🤡 Make a Bigger Scandal. – If you’re gonna go down, take the whole fucking building with you.

📜 Call Out The Bullshit. – Be the guy who tells it like it is—they’ll hate you more, but you’ll expose the entire grift.

Final Thoughts: The Only Way To Win? Stop Giving a Fuck.

Look, you can’t stop someone from rewriting history to fit their new victim narrative. The best thing you can do is laugh, keep living your life, and never give these people the satisfaction of watching you beg.

Because at the end of the day? They were fine with it until they weren’t.

🚀 Stay unbothered. Stay unapologetic. And never, EVER let them think you owe them shit.

🚨REBLOG if You Agree and Want More!

[xkittzkornerx]

ahhhh, the struggle of someone who hates both purity culture and hookup culture! one side thinks i’m a prudish puritan for not wanting to have sex every five seconds with just anyone, and the other gets really creepy about how “clean” i am and how i’m “not like other girls.”

[qaytesquorner]

As someone who used to hookup, dudes will literally go out of their way to make a consensual encounter a rape or dubiously consensual.

[agirlwholovedthesun]

Why is it so hard for men to say “oh I don't actually like you, I just think you're hot”?? It would save everyone a lot of time and energy tbh

[ghostofdiamonds]

a play in two acts

[slobozan-shitposting]

Is something wrong with me bc I want long romantic relationship before any sexual interaction or is it just rotten hook up culture and pornography that don't value loyalty and affection

[luvm3always]

I 𝑎𝑐𝑡𝑢𝑎𝑙𝑙𝑦 𝚑𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑔𝑢𝑦𝑠 𝑠𝑜 𝑚𝑢𝑐𝚑 𝑙𝑜𝑙. 𝖂𝑖𝑠𝚑 I 𝑤𝑎𝑠 𝑠𝑒𝑒𝑛 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑡𝚑𝑎𝑛 𝑗𝑢𝑠𝑡 𝑎𝑛 𝑜𝑏𝑗𝑒𝑐𝑡 ♡

𝑎𝑛𝑦𝑤𝑎𝑦𝑠, 𝑜𝑙𝑑 𝑙𝑜𝑣𝑒>>

[smithjoy0]

[briefpeachdinosaur]

Hook up culture is so disgusting.

That's all.

@viiper1

[dannyvondutch]

HOW IT FEELS TO OPEN GRINDR IN A NEW CITY

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[bougieblkbimbo]

i keep seeing all these memes about having a hot girl summer and being in the streets this summer but i have no desire to do that. i know what i want now and my self esteem is high enough to the point where i don’t want to tolerate meaningless flings and situationships and people that can’t even court me. i want all males to leave me alone until i can get what i want

[onadulting]

The Hook-Up Culture at its Finest

Living as a person in their 20s in the 21st century is as hard as it is but the additional pressure of having to go through with the current hook-up culture is a mess. There is this notion that this trend is empowering and something that everyone should try out because it’s a no-strings-attached form of self-pleasure. However, what no one tells you is just how damaging is it for those that do not wish to participate, for they are deemed as lame and prudes, so to speak. I guess to some, this culture is somewhat freeing but most just do it because of the lack of other options, they get swallowed up without the intention of it.

In my “humble” opinion, this sort of trend is a form of devaluing oneself for the sole purpose of sex. Which is very shallow. I am all for sexual liberty if it is done in a respectful, safe, and law-abiding way. But any new trend and social construction comes with consequences. Those consequences, specifically in regards to the hook-up culture, being the insincerity and superficial forms of relationships that come as a result. 

Anyone who shies away from this trend and instead wants for something more substantial is left with little to no options. Instead, this generation relies on rizz and games in order to get in someone’s pants. It has come to the point of not knowing who is being genuine and who has an ulterior motive. It has become so normalised that no one sees an issue with this. It’s a sure destruction of what real romance and love should be- for the bare minimum gets celebrated. Again, one’s value is determined by sex rather than anything else that makes a good human being. But who am I kidding? Personal qualities seem to have no value in this day and age.

Maybe I’m the lame one and the prude. Maybe all I want to do is find a good, loving partner and start a family with them. But I don’t know how that’s meant to happen if this is the reality. There really is no shame in wanting to be a part of the hook-up culture if that’s something that you really want, but please don’t shame others for having different views and forcing them into this trend. 

OA <3